My girlfriend and I have gotten into some fights just like any couple, but when it happens, she calls her friends to talk instead of talking to me about it, and it’s very frustrating.
We have some mutual friends now, and I know most of her friends. There is this other couple we go out with sometimes, the guy is a friend of mine, and the girl is a friend of hers. When she couldn’t get a hold of her, she called him – my friend – and vented to him!
I feel like all her friends, some of my friends, and even her family thinks I’m this colossal jerk after all the times she’s called them when we have issues. I want her to talk to me to resolve our issues resolved but instead she keeps running off, crying and calling her friends, our mutual friends and even her family. What do I do??? J in Cambridge
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