I been going out with a guy for 7 months now and planning to move together in 2 months (his idea).
Lately, I have this nagging feeling that something is off, that I’m jealous about someone I don’t know about. I had the same feeling about 2 months ago, I went and opened his phone and was surprised that he was talking and seeing someone else. I forgave him.
I wanted to ask him if he was cheating again but I’m afraid he would vehemently deny that he’s cheating. I don’t want to touch his phone again and it’s been hard because he’s been very protective of it. I also notice that his Facebook messenger would say “active now” and if I call him he wouldn’t answer. I wanted to know the truth.
Should I try and spy on him? I feel like I need evidence to prove my suspicion coz he had lied to me straight in the eye until I showed him proof. Should I still trust him to think that he wants to move in together and spend most of his time with me. What should I do? I love him to bits but i’m losing sleep over this and can’t shake this feeling off.
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