My best friend and I had a huge blow out last weekend. We were at the bar for her birthday and had gone to the washroom, & when we came back- some other girls had stolen our seats.
I called them out for stealing our seats and they wouldn’t move- so I asked to talk to the manager, and the manager wouldn’t do anything so I said we’re not paying out bill and we are leaving.
My friend then took that moment to say I’m an narcissist, all I care about is myself and that we could have just stayed & moved to another table instead of causing a scene because it was her birthday and her favourite bar.
I disagree with her completely- yes, my life may be a little dramatic at times but she NEVER sticks up for herself, and I’m pretty sure she LIKES to cowar behind me so she never looks like the bad guy!
How do I tell her to stop being such a wimp- or to deal with the fact I won’t put up with BS from other people?