Relationships are not easy. They take work, they’re ever changing and sometimes they can get stale. You knew that right? I know, it’s obvious and an oversimplification, but it’s also true.
This might run counter to the notion that some relationships can get stale, but many researchers and therapists recommend scheduling a sex night. Yes, Laura thinks this is lame, but hear me (and more importantly the people who know a thing or two about this stuff) out.
“Sex is supposed to be spontaneous, which makes scheduling it seem anything but romantic. But smart long-term couples know that’s hogwash. By making a regular date to do it, you’ll be able to plan for sex and build excitement. With all your other obligations, you can’t rely on spontaneity.”
Life is busy, especially with more work commitments and kids in the mix. Even Kristen Bell just talked about how she and her husband Dax Shepherd do it. Schedule sex that is.
See, even celebs are doing it, so how could it be lame?