My bf of two years started smoking. He hides it from me by chewing gum but I can smell his breath when I kiss him. He gets defensive when I point this out even saying that he only smokes once in awhile. He knows I hate the smell of the smoke. So now our intimacy level has gone down because he doesn’t want me to know he smoked and frankly I don’t want to kiss an ashtray.
How can I make him realize that there is absolutely no benefit in smoking (though I’m sure he knows that too) and make him completely stop before he gets more addicted without getting into an argument and me looking like a nagger.
No Astray Kisser from London
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