My boyfriend and I have been engaged for 9 yrs, but have never had the money to put down for a wedding. We had two kids along the way, so getting married took a back seat to that. We now have the money and I told my friend that we set a date for next July and she was not happy and she tried to talk me out of it saying it was a really bad idea. She said we fight way too much and thinks that we need to talk to someone about our problems before getting married.
Then my boyfriend’s brother got engaged and set a date for next September and he’s upset because we’re taking away his date and joy of what comes with planning the wedding.
Now, I’m not sure if we keep going on with the planning, or if my friend is right and I should stay with him, just not marry him. -Confused about weddings in Cambridge
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