I have become really close with “Amy” over the past year. She has had a HUGE crush on one of our mutual friends for a while now. He has always been the guy she’s been interested in, but she hasn’t done anything about it. He’s shy and not one to make a move.
I like him too, but haven’t mentioned it to Amy and I didn’t think anything would happen. That is until New Years Eve. Amy was away with her sister – they always spend NYE together – and the guy in question was at a party I was at, and at midnight we kissed. We were pretty much inseparable most of the night and later we went back to his place, and there was more kissing.
So now, while I’m excited for the potential of something new, I’m worried about my friendship. Part of me wants to call it off and tell Amy what happened and say it was because I was drunk which wouldn’t be true. I like him a lot, but I still want her friendship very much. What do I do?
Bad friend in Waterloo