My fiance’s parents are paying for a large portion of our wedding and are insisting that we invite ALL the family. That’s not what I want. I wanted a small wedding with close family members and close friends- that’s it!
We met with my fiance’s parents on the weekend and again they insisted we invite all the family (oh- and it’s a big one)- I said no I wanted a small wedding and that’s when things hit the fan. My future Mother in Law suggested I wasn’t serious about this marriage because I didn’t want to include the whole family. She even said I was acting selfish and spoiled for wanting a small wedding.
When we got home I was venting to my fiance and I said I think your Mom hates me and why can’t they accept that I’m not going to do things a certain way just because it’s how it’s always done. I was pretty emotional at the time.
Turns out a good 5 minutes of my rant was left on voice mail to my future in laws- my Fiance butt dialed his MOM.
We haven’t spoken since the weekend or the incident. I don’t know if we should mention it next time we see them or just pretend it didn’t happen- but I know they got a voicemail chalked full of me being an emotional wreck!!
What do I do?
Wedding Stress, Baden