I *WAS* in one of my friend’s bridal parties for her wedding at the beginning of October.
This past weekend- I broke the news to her I was expecting and due at the beginning November and a couple days later she called me and asked me to step down as a bridesmaid. She said she didn’t want me to come to Vegas for her bachelorette if I can’t party. She said she thought I’d be taking too much of the spotlight in her bridal photos and said if I’m that pregnant I should just be relaxing during the wedding.
I’m a little mad- considering she made us PRE ORDER our dresses already- and I’ve already paid $700 for a dress that won’t even fit me and they won’t return. I’ve also already booked the flights to Vegas.
She said she’ll try to find someone else to fill my spot but “no promises”. She basically made me feel like my pregnancy was a burden.
What should I do? I know weddings are stressful from my own experience but come on, talk about bridezilla!
Fed up, Cambridge