I just met my boyfriend’s mom for the first time this weekend and I can’t stand her.
My boyfriend had always talked about how sweet and kind him Mother was but I can see now that’s only in his eyes. She was judgmental, pushy, and even asked when we were planning to get married and start a family! We’ve only been dating for 6 months. She scoffed at the fact I’m an event planner and said I can do “more than party for a living”.
My boyfriend was so excited that I met his mother that he started making plans that we all go up to the cottage together with HER boyfriend. I was mortified- there’s no way I can spend a week up north with this witchy woman.
I love my boyfriend, but how do I tell him to make this work I think less time spent with his mother is for the best? I don’t want to blow it with him- but I don’t think I can be around his Mother that long with out saying something I shouldn’t to her!
Mama Drama, Cambridge