Recently I reconnected with a friend, lets call her “Liz”.
When me and Liz parted ways it was Liz that decided that we should no longer be friends even though she was in the wrong. This was difficult for me as I valued our friendship.
Lately I was thinking about Liz and how she is doing so I thought I would try to reconnect with her. When we talked (through text) I felt like I had to prove myself to her, even though I was not in the wrong. I basically apologized for her mistakes as I am willing to put the past in the past and the issues that we had were not major by any means, nothing to end a friendship over in my opinion.
Since my text we have not spoken…she is a “Facebook” friend, but it doesn’t feel like a friendship to me. I am always the one that puts more effort into friendships and willing to work through difficult times.
Do I remove her from Facebook and move on? Where do you meet quality people or am I the problem?
Depressed in Guelph