Last week I heard a panel about a woman whose boyfriend can’t sleep in the the same bed with her and I thought “I wish I had that problem”.
You see, my boyfriend hates when I sleep with clothes on. He wants me to sleep naked – all the time. I like to sleep in a tank top and underwear. Whenever I try to bring this issue up, my boyfriend becomes angry and offended. It drives him crazy and we end up fighting. I’ve learned to get naked to avoid an argument. I don’t get naked because I want to, I do it out because I feel I have to. What should I do? -Naked in Waterloo
Where are they now?
I tried bringing up that I’m more comfortable in clothes.. AGAIN.. and he lost it. This cycle happened a couple more times before I realized I’m in the wrong relationship. We broke up. And I now have a whole bed to myself, wearing whatever I want to sleep! Life is good!
-No longer Naked in Waterloo
I have a friend who already has three cats in her house with her boyfriend.
They both travel a fair amount… or are at least away from their house on weekends. I know for a fact when they first got their last cat, my friend went away for 3 days and left her kitten at home.
I just don’t think the maturity is there, and I think this pup isn’t going to get the attention it SHOULD if she gets one.
Should I say something or wait for the trainwreck to happen? Then what?
Puppy Problems, Cambridge
Where are they now?
I took the advice from your facebook page… I tried to gently go over a check list of all the things and expenses my friend would need to get a dog. Unfortunately, it convinced her even more that she should get a dog.
So her and her boyfriend did it.. Oh, and they got a HUSKY. And, I’ve already babysat it three times. I’d say any training it’s learned is from me. I’m basically just hanging around to make sure this dog doesn’t turn around to be a hyper mess. I’m pretty sure her and her boyfriend are actually going to break up soon and I actually plan to adopt the dog when it happens.
Still Puppy Problems, Cambridge