I’ve been out of a year long relationship for 4 months now and I’m still feeling heartbroken over it. I really loved this girl but I made mistakes in the relationship. It’s affected my life from making me mopey at home and being disconnected from my family to my grades slipping in my courses. I’ve tried getting rebounds but I can’t, and the thought of her with another person makes me even more upset. Sometimes I have points of clarity and realize that she won’t take me back and that I need to just leave it alone and stop thinking about it but I can’t get her out of my head. How do I get over it and move on? I feel like I’m stuck in a rut. What should I do/what steps should I take to get on with my life?
Conflicted and Sad in Cambridge